Recommendations, or not

New Day Rising

Wow. I really don’t know what else to say about this. Last night when I was heading out to an election party I was still pretty convinced that no matter what the polls were showing we’d all soon be living under a McCain/Palin Whitehouse. The last 8 years have been full of “that couldn’t possibly happen” leading into “omg how did that happen” so even with so much support for Obama in my immediate circle, I wasn’t convinced.

My first clue that something might be different this time was Ohio going for Obama with no struggle at all. I was kind of in shock, I’d gotten used to the returns being super close until the last minute so that getting pegged early on was not what I was expecting. Follow that up with everyone, including FOX News calling it for Obama before the polls even closed in some places and I was blown away. I’d forgotten what it was like not to have weeks of recounts and disputed votes. I’m in SF right now and the town was going insane. Seriously, look at this:

19th & Valencia @ Midnight

That was happening in the Mission. 19th and Valencia. One of the last places in the country I would expect a crowd of people waving American flags. But sure enough it happened. I talked to people today who said for the first time in their lives they hung flags in and out of their houses and finally understood what patriotism is all about. That’s kind of a big deal if you think about it. But this isn’t just impactful to previously skeptical Americans. There’s massive global impact here as well.

As you know I travel a lot and a good chunk of that is outside of the US. I’m constantly faced with people from other countries saying “well, you are cool enough but obviously you are the exception, the rest of your country must be idiots to have voted for that Bush guy.” When I try to tell people that not everyone voted for him, and even people who did vote for him aren’t 100% down which his actions over the last several years they usually scoff and point out of the country didn’t like him he’s get kicked out, so clearly people are behind him. General disgust aside, that has lead to deeper discussions about how great the US used to be, and how the Bush presidency is clearly a sign it’s going down the tubes. That’s not something I heard from one person in one country, it’s a feeling I got repeatedly all over the world. The US electing Obama over McCain is a clear message to everyone else on this planet that the US isn’t happy with the leadership we’ve had and we want something to change. This is good for all of us. Joi posted about this as well and it’s worth reading his take. Ian’s take is also worth checking out.

But let’s talk about McCain for a second, as I said I wasn’t convinced until he walked out and started his concession speech that it was really happening. And that speech was one of the best I’d ever seen. I’ve mentioned before that I was previously a McCain supporter (even at one point calling for a McCain/Hillary ticket) but his actions in this election turned me away. His choice of Palin as VP totally backfired and I lost count how many die hard republican friends of mine voted against their own party for the first time in their lives just to ensure she stayed out of the Whitehouse. If McCain hadn’t played politics and had been giving speeches like that one for the rest of this election he probably would have won, or it would have been a much closer race.

Obama’s speech was exactly what a President-elect should have said. I haven’t been a huge fan of Obama either and disagree on a few points but even I cheered as he spoke. That is what a leader should sound like, and for the first time in my life I see a US president that people actually want to rally behind, that they want to support and not just point out how much the other guy sucks. I saw people voting for someone instead of against someone, and that is truly remarkable. What happens now is going to be interesting, but I think we as a country are taking the first steps towards making things better rather than worse.

National Car Rental FTW

In the past few years I’ve had to rent more than my fair share of rental cars. I’ve rented from Hertz, Enterprise, Budget, Dollar, and a handful of smaller local companies. Some of those were better than others, but rarely did I find a reason to try to go back to the same rental company the next time. In fact after joining Hertz’s loyalty program hoping that I could establish some kind of regular purchase/reward deal with them I found myself constantly playing middle man between what Hertz corporate would tell me, and the privately owned Hertz Local Edition shops that acted like Hertz corporate was screwing them and it was my fault. Combined with them frequently not even having cars available I gave up.

I bitched about this on twitter and someone suggested I try out National and holy crap, I can’t believe I never tried them before. I’m seriously kicking myself for the last 2 years of rentals that weren’t with them. As a member of their Emerald Club (free sign up online) you get to choose any car on the lot and all at the same price. Yeah, a minivan costs the same as a compact, a cost which is generally cheaper than what you’d get a piece of crap car from any other place. For instance, I have a Toyota Prius for a week right now, it’s costing me $170. Last time I rented from them I had a Nissan Altima for a weekend, that was under $100. And seriously, they have rad cars, they aren’t the super cheep-o model you’ve never heard of, I’ve got a Prius right now for crying out loud.

Anyway, literally this is the first time I’ve ever been amped about renting a car so I thought I’m pass that on here.

So demanding!

Just got this fun e-mail:

Hi,
I hope you received my previous email (below).
I’d appreciate your response.

Best,
Lior Friedman

Hi,
I’m Lior Friedman, marketing manager of [REDACTED]. We are about to launch a new search engine that will be dedicated to online games.
We would like to buy a sponsored text link on your blog.
Please contact me for more details.

Best,
Lior Friedman

So I responded:

Hi Lior-

I didn’t respond because I’m not interested. Please take me off your list.

Thanks.
-sean

The nerve of people these days…

I know you, hope I do now

Mug o Joe

I’m sitting on the couch starring at my laptop when when I should be doing is packing. I should be looking at weather forecasts and deciding what is the most sensible sweater to bring. I should be running to the post office to drop off my hold mail notice. I should be taking out the trash and making sure the cats have plenty of water. I should be double checking that I have the power cords for the electronics I have in tow. Instead I’m still sitting on my couch.

My house sitter is confirmed and has the keys and in a few hours I’ll be on a flight to San Francisco, in a few days on a flight to Tokyo, then back to Vancouver via SF before finally returning to LA in time for my house warming party. Just in time. At some point in between there I need to start thinking about which bigger pieces of furniture that I own I will move into storage, which I want to sell, and which I want to try to move across the state. A lot of that will be determined by some of the meeting I’m heading to Tokyo for as Multibasing is taking another major step towards becoming a working reality.

LA has gotten it’s revenge on me for these thoughts as well. I’m definitely mid-course on a full blown sinus infection. I used to get these from time to time but over the last few years they’ve really picked up and my friend Shawn who has a wall full of very impressive medical degrees tells me the two biggest causes of that are the shitty air quality in LA (mostly the ash from fires rather than the smog) and my fondness for riding a bike very fast all over town (which results in frequent heavy breathing, often through my nose). One of the things I love to do most in this city is one of the things that may cause me to need massive head surgery. Excellent. One more reason I’m considering the benefits of spending much more of my time in other cities. Though recently it’s been less assured that it’s not all going to burn one way or another.

OK, dryer just finished. I really need to go pack.

Trees, and sitting in them

To answer a few questions I’ve been asked frequently in the last two days, yes, Tara and I are really engaged. It really happened on twitter. It wasn’t planned or rehearsed. We didn’t expect the overwhelming reaction. It was totally spur of the moment. I’m psyched beyond belief and can’t wait to see what will happen next.

Tara already wrote a bit about her take on it all and I wanted to echo much of what she said and throw a few of my own cents into the ring simply because I haven’t said much about it. For all the guts I regularly spill here I tend to lean more towards the “here’s what I’m trying to figure out” or “here’s what I’m thinking about” side of things and rarely venture into the “this is how I feel” zone. Well, I’m venturing there now. As you may have guessed from the whole marriage proposal thing I’m madly, deeply and completely in love with Tara Brown. I’m floored that she feels the same way, even more so because if you’ve been reading my blog for a while you know I’m the last one who ever thought this would happen.

The Coast!

I met Tara in Austin earlier this year, she was a friend of some friends and we instantly clicked. We talked a lot in the following months and about a week after a road trip we took, over text messages no less, we both confessed how infatuated we were with each other and how we both wanted to put some effort into “us” and see where it might lead. I dare say that since then, every day that we’ve been together and every day that we’ve been apart, those feelings have only gotten stronger. I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with her, hell I can’t wait to spend another 5 minutes with her.

So why so soon, and why ask over Twitter? If there’s one thing I’ve learned through everything I’ve been through it’s that there’s no time like the present. I’ve been saying that my whole life, but I finally started living it and it changed everything for me. You only live once and when you are sure of something there’s no point in waiting. You regret the things you don’t do way more than the things you do, right? So I dove in. We dove in. Last month Tara wrote in a blog post about our relationship saying “I can definitely report that being with Sean means lack of routine. We pretty much plan things spur of the moment.” And that’s true. Tara and me in Golden Gate ParkOur entire relationship has been that way and it’s working famously, so why should the next step be any different. I can’t find the first thing I ever sent her on Twitter (since archives don’t go back that far anymore) but needless to say we’ve been using that as a main form of communication since day one and it just made sense. For us anyway, and that’s all that matters.

Lots of people have been asking about the future. Who is moving where, when is the wedding, what color will the brides maids dresses be, etc. My reply to all of this is have you met us? Christ, we barely have solid plans 48 hours in advance, do you you think any of that is confirmed yet? That said, this and a few other factors make it fairly safe to say that I’ll be around SF a lot more in the near future but where we’ll be a year from now is anyone’s guess. But stay tuned, I’m sure it’s going to be a wild ride.