2009

The value of being there

Joi has a very interesting post about the difference between upside and downside focus in investing. While I don’t have the extra cash to put this kind of approach into practice (someday!) it’s not an altogether new idea for me, just a different area. I’ve been applying this kind of focus in different aspects to other parts of my life, especially travel. I’ll explain why – often the potential upside far outweighs the concrete downside especially over a long enough time line. Let me give two examples before I elaborate on that. Most people are familiar with Woody Allen’s famous quote “80% of success is showing up.” This gets laughed off a lot as if it’s a joke but it’s actually not. If you look at the entire population of people you are up against in any field there are two massive chunks that this eliminates – The people who assume they won’t succeed and don’t try, and the people who try once and fail and don’t try again. Simply by showing up and trying again and again, the law of averages is in your favor with no consideration of talent or skill. Determination goes a very long way in much of life.

But this isn’t just luck of the draw by any means, it’s also one of the best ways to make sure that your talents and skills are in fact noticed. For many years I trained in Bujinkan and a story frequently passed on about the Grandmaster Hatsumi Sensei is that one of the reasons he was given the title was not that he was the best student, but that he was the most dedicated. This wasn’t to challenge his skill, there’s no question he’s a total bad ass, but to show the rewards of putting in the effort. The story is that many of Takamatsu Sensei‘s students regularly attended his classes, but none as frequently as Hatsumi Sensei. This was especially important because Hatsumi Sensei had to travel by train, often 15+ hours to make it to a class, where as many other students who were much closer didn’t always attended. Because of his dedication his skill was recognized. He didn’t look at the downside of making that kind of trek, he focused on the potential upside of what the training would lead to.

So bringing this all back to the main point, I often look at the upsides and downsides to a trip (be it to a conference or to a city). The downside is instantly tangible and easy to obsess over – this trip will cost me X and will require X days away from normal work, friends, family, etc. That is enough to convince most people not to go, or to go once and if they don’t see results not to go back. However, the potential upside of continuing to go, again and again is massive. Regardless of your talent or skill, if you aren’t around the harder it is for people to recognize it, where as if you are around all the time people get to know you and what you are good at. Being in the proximity of smart and talented people more often gives you a higher chance of interacting with and working with those people. This can result in fantastically cool pay offs, but patience is required sometimes. It’s not a tangible ROI you can calculate, but being dedicated showing up more often than someone else can only work in your favor.

But it’s not only business – in simple travel this applies to. On a long enough time line the benefits of being well rounded and well traveled far exceed the downsides of the cost (time/money) of any one trip, yet it’s the exactly that single trip cost that prevents most people from doing this.

I guess what I’m saying is that similar to Joi’s points about some investors ruining a deal because they are obsessing over a point here or there, my approach in life is that obsessing about the little details can cause you to miss out on the larger reaching rewards. Like Joi mentions in his post, in the worst case situation all you lose is the $ of the initial investment, but the potential upside is so much greater. In a way it’s “can’t see the forest for the trees” theory. Focus on the little stuff too much and you miss the really impressive big stuff.

Who are the internet troublemakers?

I’m trying to make a list. It may or may not be for a writing project I’m working on. OK nevermind, it is. I’m trying to compile a list of 100 hackers, pranksters, culture jammers and revolutionaries that changed the web. I have a good list already but I’m wondering who you think should be on this list as well? Important note: As this is a list of “internet” people who “changed the web” anyone suggested should have done something noteworthy online. There are a lot of amazing pranksters and culture jammers out there who aren’t doing things online so they wouldn’t be on this list. Also, I’d prefer people over groups, though I know that in some cases a group is the only option. Suggestions??

10 most annoying things people do on twitter

Here are my current top 10 annoying things that other people do on twitter, in no particular order. I of course do none of these things because I’m not annoying at all. Ask anyone.

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  1. Retweeting someone elses #FollowFriday list that includes your name – you are basically telling your followers to follow you.
  2. For that matter, listing the same people in your #FollowFriday list every single week – we get it already, move on.
  3. Auto DMs of any kind, be they of ‘thanks for following’ or ‘check out my shit’ variety – these are generally met with instant unfollows and frequently blocks as well.
  4. ALL CAPS ALL THE TIME – unless you are @THE_REAL_SHAQ this is never OK. Ever.
  5. @replying to someone’s real name rather than their username (assuming they aren’t the same thing) – thus screwing up the whole reply thread.
  6. Having a twitter stream that is 100% retweets – clearly you are boring and have nothing to say on your own.
  7. Having a twitter stream that is 100% replies, even worse if those replies are frequently to celebs and people with millions of followers ensuring there is no way they will ever see that reply – stop trying so hard.
  8. I forgot what 8 was for.
  9. Allowing spam from other services like Brightkite, Spymaster, Foursquare, etc – No one cares.
  10. Begging for retweets.

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Dear Metblogs readers & writers, we fucked up. Sorry.

Photo 122Yeah. So… Hey. Hows it going? Good. Glad to hear it.

We’ve made some changes over the last few years in efforts to make things better but have realized that some of those changes might have done the opposite so we’re trying to change the changes. The truth is the changes we initially made were made with good intentions, some were at the request of readers and writers, some were heading the advice of business people who were giving us advice about business. Really it doesn’t matter who we were listening to because we forgot one of the main things that helped us get this whole network off the ground in the first place. We forgot the part about not giving a crap what other people thought and just building sites we liked and wanted to hang out on ourselves. We tried to please a lot of people at the same time which is always, always a bad idea.

And we’re sorry.

Truly and seriously. And while we know we have egos, they aren’t so big that we can’t admit when we screw up and the only thing to do when you screw up is take a step back and try to fix it. So here are some of the things we’re doing.

Coach seats on airlines make us hate each other

There is something inherently aggressive about airline seats pushing back into fellow passengers. It shows a complete disregard for their personal space, especially when slammed back in one swift movement without even a look behind to see what might be in the way at any given moment. I’ve been hit, had drinks spilled and nearly cracked a laptop screen because someone someone pushed the recline button and went back full force. And of course because I think about this I’ve become extremely self conscious about it and won’t dare to recline my own seat if the one behind me is occupied out of fear that I’m being an ass. But that’s kind of the problem, when someone does this I immediately hate them. Meanwhile they are only doing exactly what the seat they paid for was designed to do – so where is the middle ground?

The problem is that these seats were designed many years ago and as we all know airlines haven’t been raking in the bucks they used to so they’ve been forced to try and add more seats on flights by pushing rows closer together which makes a reclining seat back far more intrusive than it used to be. I’ve actually taken to asking people if it’s ok if I put my seat back just a little bit before doing it, and I resent when people don’t do the same. And don’t get me started about kids who put the seat forward and backward 300x times in a single flight.

On my last flight back to LA from Washington DC the plane was rather empty, including the seat in front and behind me which was nice because I wasn’t worried about any of this. Until midway through the flight when some guy decided his row was too crowded and moved into the empty row in front of me, in the seat in front of me and promptly threw back his seat. I tapped him on the head and asked he he had any idea that he’d just slammed his seat into my legs and knocked my laptop onto the floor (which he had). He replied that he didn’t, but it wasn’t his fault. I told him of course I didn’t blame him, and hoped he also wouldn’t blame me when the turbulence we were about to have just as I was standing up caused me to dump my beverage all over him.

I guess he realized I was serious and brought the seat back up and moved to a different row with no one behind him.

But my ranting and raving point to this is these seats suck major ass, but taking 3 seconds to check with the person behind you before moving into their space goes a very long way towards maintaining positive relationships with your fellow man (or woman).